Finally, you say the cat belongs to your husband and that he got her before you were married. I can't help but wonder if before the noise/scratching incident you already wished your husband didn't own this cat. Are you sure you aren't working up to trying to convince him to get rid of the cat for your "peace of mind?" If that's your plan I think it's a bad one especially if it turns into a "it's me or the cat" ultimatum. I also think if that IS the plan (and perhaps it's not) it's dishonest. It's not that you are uncomfortable around the cat because of what happened. You just don't want your husband to own the cat.
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